In 2022, 22.7% of couples living together were not married or registered in a civil partnership [1]. A nationwide poll has shown that there is a significant misunderstanding of the rights, or lack thereof, afforded to cohabitees when they separate. Nearly half (47%) of cohabitees are unaware that they lack the rights otherwise afforded to individuals who are married or in a civil partnership [2].
We last wrote in October 2023 about the need for reform of the law surrounding cohabitating couples and recent research carried out by Resolution (a group of family lawyers committed to constructive outcomes for separating individuals) supports this view. Over a thousand family lawyers and legal professionals shared their views and experiences with the majority identifying cohabitation law as the next priority for reform. 75% of those surveyed said that they would support changes that would provide basic rights to cohabiting couples [2].
Resolution has drawn up a ‘Vision for Family Justice’ which launched in Parliament on 27 November, calling for changes to the law that fits the modern needs of cohabiting families [3]. The ‘vision’ focuses heavily on the creation of legislation specifically designed to create rights and obligations for cohabitants, which currently do not exist.
Specific suggestions of reform include introducing:
The first two options to protect cohabitees’ rights in the event of a separation are ‘simple’:
1. Get married or
2. Enter into a civil partnership
However, not everyone wants to walk down the aisle. In fact, 50% of cohabitees have no plans to get married and 34% do not believe in marriage at all [2]. So, if marriage or a civil partnership are not options for you, what steps can you take now to protect your rights as a cohabitee?
3. Enter into a cohabitation agreement
You and your partner can enter into a cohabitation agreement which can set out your intended arrangements for your finances (including any property) if you separate. You can also include your intentions in the event you become unwell or die. Cohabitation agreements are contracts which can be enforced in the civil court if they are drafted and signed as a deed. A family solicitor can help advise you on what terms would be appropriate and in your best interests in your individual circumstances. As part of the drafting, you could also include any proposed arrangements for any children of the family, although this will not be binding because of the principle that the welfare of the former is paramount and the court must retain an overall discretion in this regard.
4. Make a Declaration of Trust
Declarations of Trust are legal documents which record the terms upon which an asset, usually property, is held. Some examples of circumstances where a Declaration of Trust could be suitable are:
5. Draft a Will
When a person dies without a will, their estate must be distributed according to the ‘intestacy rules’. Cohabitees have no right to inherit under these rules. If you do not have children, your share of the property may pass to your parents or to more distant family members. If a cohabitee wants to make a claim for financial provision, they will have to make a lengthy and expensive court application. This would be a distressing and difficult process for you or your partner after the death of the other and there is no guarantee that you would be successful. If your intention is for your cohabiting partner to receive all or some of your estate on death, then you should draft a will which sets this out clearly and unambiguously. A solicitor can help draft your will so that it is legally binding, reflects your wishes and is tax efficient.
If you are a separating cohabitee but have not taken any steps during your relationship to protect your rights, you should not lose hope.
The first thing to consider is whether you can come to an agreement now with your partner on what your finances will look like in the event that you separate. You should each receive separate advice to enable you to discuss this together, attend mediation (with a neutral third-party to help steer the discussions) or negotiate through solicitors. The latter can help draft your agreement into a separation agreement which is legally binding as a contract.
In the absence of an agreement, you may still have a statutory claim for property ownership or for financial assistance with any children of the family. These claims are highly fact-specific so advice should be taken as soon as practicable as to their chances of success so that you can make an informed decision.
[2] https://resolution.org.uk/news/resolution-calls-for-more-rights-for-unmarried-couples/